THE MOTHER of a 13-year-old Form One student of a secondary school in south Trinidad is appealing to officials of the school and Minister of Education Dr Nyan Gadsby-Dolly to intervene immediately to end the vicious and constant bullying he has been enduring at the hands of both male and female students since he started at that school.
After seeing a photo of an open grave with people looking into it, with the words, "The only time they show they really care," on his Instagram account, the mother, in a phone interview with Newsday on October 9, said she fears her son may become a victim of suicide.
Although giving her consent to be named, Newsday has chosen to omit the name of the mother, her son and the school, to prevent additional public ridicule or negative attention on the teen and his family.
“I am scared for my child’s life and safety,” the mother said.
She said her son told her he and other first-form students were being coerced into joining gangs in the school and because he had refused to do so, was being bullied constantly by members of the gangs, both male and female.
Listing some of the forms of bullying, the woman claimed that her son was "pantsed" (the boy's school pants and his underwear forcibly pulled down) and was then laughed at and ridiculed as he struggled to hide his nakedness and put back on his clothes.
She spoke of his being cursed, beaten and threatened. She claimed to have gone to the school on at least seven occasions on different days to complain about the bullying and also to beg for help for her son, but nothing was ever done.
"They (teachers) have even begun to say I am a troublemaker, because of the number of times I came to the school to get help for my son."
Contacted for comment, Education Minister Dr Nyan Gadsby Dolly told Newsday the existence of gangs at that school had been categorically denied by the principal, the dean, and TTUTA representatives.
She advised the mother to immediately seek counselling for her son.
The mother said she was willing to go public with the bullying as she fears for her son's safety and his mental health especially after he posted the image of the open grave on his Instagram account.
She said she was uncertain as to his state of mind and is praying she does not lose her son to suicide like the family of schoolboy Jayden Lalchan, 15, who took his life after four years of bullying at his school, St Stephen's College in Princes Town.
After Lalchan's death and revelations that it stemmed from bullying, the issue took on national prominence, with politicians speaking about Lalchan during the budget debate in Parliament and Southern Division police being inundated with reports of bullying.
The mother said her 13-year-old son told her outright he was bullied even in primary school, “when children laid him out on the floor like a helicopter and kicked him up.”
“He said he is not prepared to go through that again.
"I have been trying to get a transfer for him to another school. I am willing to work extra hours to get him a space i