Spending time in prayer then going out into the world and acting like the world instead of a Child of The Most High God. The world should "see" you differently not as one of their own. Pray that God shines brightly through you so that everywhere you go everyone will see God in you not just you! Then you will know that your time in prayer with Father God was time well spent. That is the quality relationship that God desires to have with you. Not a fantasy or make-believe relationship but an honest real one!