Soca star Fay Ann Lyons has said female artistes face too much criticism in the industry and it takes away from their accomplishments.
She was speaking at the Bankers' Association of TT (BATT) and Flow's International Women's Day reception on Tuesday.
Lyons spoke on a panel at the Hyatt Regency, Port of Spain, along with gymnast Thema Williams, vice president and general manager of Flow Simone Martin-Sulgan and Richard Downie, president of BATT and managing director of RBC Royal Bank.
She said, though the difference between men and women in the music industry could not be quantified as their success was based on their popularity and relevance, the unfairness is there.
'We're in a unique position where women can advance, but you're still at a disadvantage because your advancement requires you to do things that men aren't required to do.
"For instance, I can't put on weight and still try to wear on sexy outfits and go on stage and perform, because the distraction will be social media and everyone will say that you put on weight. They don't care if you're going through something.'
She said while she means no disrespect to men, she hasn't seen people commenting on the weight of her male counterparts who are free to perform without judgment.
'My talent is what I sell first, so I want to be in a particular category that I can put on a garbage bag, go on stage and stir up the place. I want to perform and have it be about what you do on stage, as opposed to how you look.'
Lyons said there is also the issue of people comparing women to each other and trying to tear them down by attacking their emotions.
'What I had to deal with when entering the music industry was resisting comparison. A lot of the times, you enter an industry that already has a presence of women and you're coming in and you're different, and you will start to compare yourself to your counterparts.
"Resisting it is something that you have to do, because you realise that they weaponise women's feelings against each other and use it as a tool to have women fighting other women because we are different - as opposed to women embracing each other because we're different.'
She also added that while dealing with those realities, she had to find a way a break out of being viewed as just the daughter of Austin 'SuperBlue' Lyons.
'When you're the daughter of a monster artiste like SuperBlue and you go from just SuperBlue's daughter to fighting your way out of that, to then marrying a monster artiste like Bunji Garlin to, then be referred to as Bunji Garlin's wife, you're in a position where you're associated with powerful and talented men. You're being reduced to being 'the relative of'… 'the wife of'…, or 'associate of'...'
She said women tend to shy away from fighting their way up and trying to make their own name, but they shouldn't. Lyons was referred to as "Bunji Garlin's wife" by CCN TV 6 in a tweet on February 14.
Williams was also asked about the barriers she experienced while she was growing and excelling as a gymnast.
