THE FATHER of shooting victim Anissa Rajgobin-Ageemoolar is urging men to "walk away from conflict," the day after his daughter was shot and wounded by her estranged husband, Sharaz Ageemoolar, at Cross Crossing, San Fernando, on Monday.

Ageemoolar also shot and killed bystander Rosario "Danny" Ramdhan and stole a car during the incident.

Ageemoolar was later found dead in the same car, which was parked at Arjoonsingh Drive, La Romaine. Police believe he died by suicide.

Rajgobin-Ageemoolar's father, Basdeo Rajgobin, spoke to Newsday by phone on Tuesday.

He said too many men were abusing women, and Rajgobin urged them to "walk away" instead of resorting to violence.

Rajgobin said, he too had a broken marriage, but never resorted to violence. He said he walked away, kept his children and brought them up on his own.

Saying the incident had left him traumatised, Rajgobin said his daughter had been a victim of verbal and physical abuse for many years.

Rajgobin-Ageemoolar and her husband had two sons, now 23 and 25. Rajgobin said he was trying to deal with his grandsons, who were also traumatised.

Ageemoolar, he said, "used to beat her. She had real problems with him.

"Over the years, she left her marital home at Jones Street, La Romaine, many times, but returned with the aim of preserving her family life.

“When she came back to my home at Aripero this time, in June/July, she said she was never going back to him.”

While he was happy his daughter was alive, Rajgobin expressed his profound sorrow over the death of Ramdhan, who happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

“I am so very, very sorry for that young man. He is only 24. He had plans to go abroad, he was saving his money to migrate.

"I am so sorry to hear what happened to him, and for his family. He was an innocent man. You can’t just be taking people’s lives like that."

Rajgobin said Ageemoolar had recently asked his wife for a divorce, which was in the final stages, so he did not know what possessed his son-in-law to try to take his daughter’s life.

“I cannot believe he would do a stupid thing like this. I did not think he would take it this far.

"Twice, since she came to my home, my home was firebombed and shot up. I have no evidence he was involved in any of those incidents, but I had my suspicions.”

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Rajgobin said he did not know Ageemoolar to be a FUL holder and believed he would have used an illegal gun to shoot Rajgobin-Ageemoolar when she went to renew her car insurance at General Accident Insurance Company on Monday.

Ageemoolar had followed his wife into the business place and asked to speak to her outside. She refused and he pulled out a gun and fired several shots at her chest, at close range. She was hit three times.

Ageemoolar then rushed outside and, in his haste to make a quick getaway, tried to get into a Nissan Tiida which he mistook for his own.

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