No one is accusing you of having a thing for your leadership [though sisters we really do need to have a conversation about wanting to wife up the pastor…out of lust on a different day], but there should be boundaries for everyone in your life. Your pastor can be your spiritual leader at church, but he should not be the head of your home. If you are married, you and your spouse should handle that instead of making your spouse feel as though they take a backseat to someone that will not have to bear the weight of the house should something happen. Having healthy boundaries in our interactions and where we place people in our life helps us navigate life. It is an asset to our spiritual, mental, and physical health while protecting those dearest to us.
